My mom was never a "you shoulda'...you oughta" kind of mom, never
saying you oughta' do this or you shoulda' done that. It boggles my mind
how a person, let alone a MOM, could be so accepting and nonjudgmental.
It
wasn't that she was unattached or disinterested. The woman was totally
engaged and had at least 6 pair of ears. She was a listener!
She
remembered every word I ever said. I could mention a college roommate's
name years after I'd graduated college and she'd bring up where their parents lived and the
name of their dog!
When
the Mr. and I learned we were going to have a baby girl, that beautiful
little blue-eyed Mom of mine asked what we were going to name our
girlie. We excitedly told her our short list,
Madison...Lauren...Sarah...which were good names and had links to
ancestors but mom was quiet for just a minute and then in a gentle, soft
voice said "You should name her Emily."
The
Mr. and I about fell right off our chairs. Mom just said..."you
SHOULD"! We were speechless, wide-eyed and in shock when we nodded our
heads and said "okay".
Mom's grandmother had been named
Emily. My mom was born after her grandmother died and never knew her. I
don't know why Mom felt so strongly about the name but I believe there
are ties that bind families together, real ties, eternal ties, important
ties that I don't understand but I feel their importance in the center
of my being.
My
mom named our one and only little girl and she named her Emily. Then
just to put the icing on the cake, Emily was born on Mom's birthday.
:)
Today is their birthday! Happy birthday girls!! We love you and are blessed by your sweetness. :) xoxo
Awww I loved all these pictures, most or actually all I have never seen before. What a special name and special ladies! Lots of love
ReplyDeleteLove it! I never knew the story about Emily's name.
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